Last week my boyfriend and I had a conversation about our ideal home situations and what we needed to do to make them more of a reality.
If you’re interested in that conversation, you can check it out below:
We both want a clean, simple, organized, and personal home that is as functional as it is cozy.
We both found some photos that represented our ideal homes.
I think we’re lucky to agree on so many aspects of a home.
So the next step was to make a plan.
We decided to start by decluttering the basement and the bedroom.
In the basement we have/had a lot of junk. Some of the junk was there when we moved in like paintings, fishing rods, a weird mattress thing, a desk, a clothes rack, buckets of some junk, another desk, and an air conditioner.
We also have some clothes we forgot about, DVDs, CDs, books books books, and a guinea pig cage no one should use because it’s weird and too small.
On the other hand, we have stuff down there that we actually use. A cat carrier, laundry supplies, tools, extra dishes for when we have company, Matt’s band stuff, and painting supplies.
The main issue with the bedroom was that Matt had a lot of clothes he didn’t wear that he needed to sort through so that he’d have more room to store the clothes he does wear.
The first step in decluttering the basement was to organize the items into piles: trash, donate, sell, keep, not sure yet.
The subsequent steps are to throw away the trash, haul the donate stuff to Goodwill, sell the sell stuff, and find a home for the items we want to keep and decide what to do with the ‘I don’t knows’.
We are in this phase now.
The bedroom however, is in pretty good shape. Matt took the clothes he didn’t want anymore to Goodwill and has organized the clothes he wants to keep. We might need a better solution for his shoes.
Decluttering a home can be a little stressful. It’s sometimes hard to get rid of your own things for sure, but I think it can even tougher to talk about it with your partner and get to a place where both people feel good about the plan. Matt and I are pretty lucky to be on mostly the same page.
The final and never-ending step would be limiting what comes into the home. It’s easy to fall into the habit of buying for reasons that aren’t really good enough if a decluttered home is the goal.
Good enough reasons for me to buy something:
- it’s a necessity
- it’s going to last a really, really long time
- it will bring me joy for a really, really long time
Bad reasons for me to buy something:
- it will give me a rush for the rest of the day or week
- to be cool
I will continue to share as we continue to make progress on our home and work toward our goals.
What is your ideal home situation? What can you do today to start making that a reality? What are you waiting for?